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Wonder of Wonders


Things Unseen

TX Date

21st Dec 2020


Blanche Girouard


Kristine Pommert

Nearly one in five women in the UK now reach their 40s without having children. Among them was the writer and teacher Blanche Girouard, and she desperately wanted a baby. So she decided to freeze her eggs and find an anonymous donor.

Not long before Christmas 2019, an embryo was implanted in her womb. This edition of Things Unseen is based on the audio diary Blanche kept during her lockdown pregnancy, charting the bumpy road from the decision to go it alone, via physical and emotional anguish, to holding her “wonder of wonders” in her arms a year later.

Along the way, Blanche reflects on what it means to have a donor baby on her own, including how – as a Christian – she deals with the ethical dimension of donor IVF. She hears from the donor father (who has written a life-affirming letter to his future child), worries about her scans, watches her bump moving in the bath, tries to do what she can to avoid a caesarean, and eventually gives birth naturally.

Blanche’s diary offers intimate and at times stark impressions of pregnancy and childbirth, and illuminates the emotional and ethical dimensions of having a donor-conceived child – but the wonder and hope of a new baby, which are so central to the Christmas story, will shine through for all.